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Move and be moved – Part 1

by Steve Brock on May 23, 2013

I’d heard of the memorial and vaguely recalled the past events that led to its construction. But until last week, it meant little to me.

Oklahoma City National Memorial and Museum Just a few days before the devastating tornado touched down a dozen or so miles from there this week, I stood amidst the Oklahoma City National Memorial and Museum. I came not so much to pay tribute to those killed on April 19, 1995 when the rental truck driven by Timothy McVeigh exploded, cutting short the life of 168 people.

Oklahoma City National Memorial and MuseumInstead, I arrived simply because my work meetings on my business trip there had ended early. My four colleagues and I were looking for something of interest until our plane departed four hours later. We decided on the memorial for reasons that stemmed more out of a lack of other choice than intention.

Oklahoma City National Memorial and MuseumAs we approached the memorial, we took in the murmured whispers of other visitors, the  dark arches that bookend the black reflecting pool and the ochre colored building that now houses the site’s museum. Minutes later, we stood on the curved overlook listening to the park ranger as he filled in details that added incredible meaning to the space around us.

Listening to the RangerHe told of the rental truck loaded with enough fertilizer that, when ignited, left a crater seven feet deep and 27 feet wide – the distance, he pointed out, between two trees across from us. He explained about McVeigh’s getaway car parked at the time to the left of where we now stood, left unattended and unmoved for a week before the blast.

Oklahoma City National Memorial and MuseumHe told of how the axle of the blown up rental truck landed over a block away, smashing a car but not harming the person inside. How that axle’s serial number led to identifying the truck which led to finding its rental location and a description of McVeigh. How by not having license plates on the getaway car, McVeigh was pulled over an hour and a half north of here and arrested not for anything related to the explosion but because of an unregistered concealed gun they found on him when they pulled him over. How the FBI pieced it all together so quickly and made the connections that led to McVeigh’s eventual execution six years later.

Chairs of the VictimsThe ranger also recounted the personal loss in what is still the deadliest terrorist attack on US soil carried out by its own citizens. He pointed out the 168 bronze and glass chairs on the lawn across from us, one for each victim, the small ones representing the children killed that day.

The memorial wallStories and more stories, far too numerous to recount here but all made more tangible by what we could see, hear and touch.

Oklahoma City National Memorial and MuseumThe power of such memorials is that they are physical reminders that tell those of us who lived through the time of the events, “Remember.” And to those who come later: “Learn and do not forget.”

Oklahoma City National Memorial and MuseumTravel moves us from place to place. But often, if we avail ourselves, take the time and venture forth on “unnecessary” side trips, it moves us in other ways.

Jesus Wept at OKC MemorialI had no intention when I left on this business trip last week to visit this place. Now I cannot imagine ever forgetting it.

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How to select a great restaurant on a trip

by Steve Brock on December 7, 2012

Sharing an exquisite meal on a trip can be a powerful, even profound experience. Dining can be one of the most memorable and pleasurable aspects of traveling.

It can also be a nightmare.

You only need one bad meal that makes you violently sick to put a damper on an otherwise great trip. But as they say, “This too shall pass.” And it does…eventually. Rare (depending on where you visited) is the person who picks up a bug that accompanies you home like a bad souvenir.

More likely on the downside of eating, is that you’ll settle for something mediocre and miss out on the opportunity for culinary fireworks.

So how do you improve the odds that your meals on a trip will enhance rather than detract from your travel experience?

Here are some tips I’ve found useful. See what you think and let me know what you do to increase the likelihood of having a great meal on your trips. Let’s start with my favorite technique:

Tip #1: Go where the locals are.

The only downside of a highly popular place is that it is highly popular. As Yogi Berra noted about one such restaurant, “Nobody goes there anymore. It’s too crowded.” The feeding throngs can reach a point where it isn’t worth the wait or the hassle. But in general, seeing a restaurant filled with people who look like they live in the neighborhood is my all-time best indicator that you’re likely to have a good meal there.

Tip #2: Ask the right locals.

Inquire of locals who don’t have a vested interest in your going to a particular restaurant. My favorite way to do this is to ask a local, “Where would you take a date?” or “Where would you go on your anniversary?” or “Where would you take an out-of-town friend?” I get much better responses than just asking, “What’s good around here?”

Tip #3: Use a guidebook.

Yes, I know many of you hate relying on guidebooks or ratings sites like Zagat, Yelp, Trip Advisor or others. Where’s the thrill of discovery, you may ask, if you’re going to someplace someone else has already recommended to every other tourist reading that same guidebook or Web site? To me, the discovery is in the dining experience itself. Put another way, I’ve “discovered” many bad restaurants on my own but have rarely had even a so-so meal at a highly recommended restaurant.

Tip #4: Find more than one thing on the menu that appeals to you.

If only one thing looks good, you’re out of luck if they’re out of that dish. Moreover, you’re more likely to appreciate the overall type of food at a restaurant where many menu items look appealing. But don’t rely on the menu alone. If you can before you are seated or even afterwards, wander around the restaurant. See what others are eating that looks appealing. Ask the waiter what that is or, if you’re outgoing and language isn’t an issue, ask the diner if they like it. Do it in an inviting manner and you’ll possibly make a new friend. Worse case, you’ll increase your likelihood of ordering something tasty.

Tip #5: Go some place that just looks cool.

As we’ll see next time when I give you a list of tips on how to avoid a bad restaurant, this is at the top of that list as well. In other words, you can’t always judge the food by the atmosphere. But if the place appeals to you visually and all the other signs look good, go for it. Even if the food is lousy, you’ll at least enjoy the settings. The opposite, of course, is also true: some of the most “hole-in-the-wall-like” places with the least visual appeal serve the best food. So what you see isn’t always what you get. Hence the previous four tips!

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Traveling small

by Steve Brock on November 30, 2012

In thinking about the reasons why we travel, it strikes me how different our reasons for travel are today versus in the past. We travel mostly for work or for pleasure these days. As a result, our scope of thinking about travel has narrowed. The noble quest that consumed months or years of one’s life has become more of a vagabond’s wanderings. The pilgrimage that cost us more than just the extended time of being on the road has been reduced to a one to two week missions trip or volunteer vacation.

So just as I was thinking that we’ve lost the “bigness” of travel, the epic or heroic nature of it, I came across this short blog post on Spain-based photographer Alejandro Ferrer Ruiz’s exquisite macro (close-up) photography. In this case, it’s a visual essay on ladybugs in the rain.

These beautiful images remind me, once again, that beauty and wonder and discovery are all about us. We don’t always have to go far or even go “big.” Sometimes much of what we travel for lies in the small revelations that are ours to experience if we have but eyes (or in this case, the photographic lens!) to see them.

I don’t want to give up on the big quests. I think we need such journeys to pull us out of ourselves and become more than we are currently. But those big trips tend to be few and far between. In the meantime, we can learn to see – and appreciate – the small journeys available right where we live.

You can view more of Alejandro’s close-up work here: http://500px.com/Aleandro

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Why we travel

by Steve Brock November 13, 2012

Why do we travel? Check out this simple infographic of what we’re running from, what we’re traveling to and why how we travel may matter more than why we travel.

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A remembrance of things present – Part 2

by Steve Brock September 12, 2012

Years after our first experience with something like biking, we can take a trip and rediscover the simple joy of a body in motion or some similar wonder we’re taken for granted most of our lives.

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A remembrance of things present – Part 1

by Steve Brock September 4, 2012

Rediscovering a joy from our youth can be as or more powerful than discovering something new, on a trip or even under a bed…

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“…notstop looking”

by Steve Brock August 28, 2012

The movie “Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close” provides some amazing insights on how to travel; both through the world and through our pain.

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